On Monday evening, summer 2014 evaporated into history...as autumn 2014 quietly made it's entrance from stage right. Summer, 2014 was a great one ~ overall.
A new position...I began my (unofficial) start to summer with a new job. I didn't leave my employer, I just took on a new position within the bank - supporting our COO - Commercial Banking. It has been a WONDERFUL move - on so many levels. I've met many new colleagues, have made new friends and have utilized and expanded my skill set. I wasn't looking to make a move, but this position become available and I felt God calling me to make the move. So I listened. I must admit, I was very hesitant when I saw the position post - my new manager was on my {mental} list of executives I'd consider supporting should the opportunity arise. You see I had {still have} a great relationship with my previous executive - who I supported for four years. So I knew I had to be very selective, should I ever consider leaving my {previous} role. The position posted just days before Easter. An administrative group within the bank e-mailed the posting to all administrative professionals - so when I saw the posting I thought "well that would be a great opportunity for someone, that executive would be a great person to support and it would be a great opportunity for advancement."...never considering myself for the position. Days later while stuffing eggs for the family's egg hunt - the post came to mind, out of no where...again I thought, it would be a great opportunity - for someone, else. The next day, while preparing Easter dinner, once again thoughts of the position filled my mind...this time I was considering myself for this position. But concerns of leaving an executive as the one I supported, added to my "maybe not" list. I had taken the day following Easter off. When I returned on Tuesday, I received a phone call from a fellow admin - who said "I know your answer will probably be "no", because you are happy where you are - but have you considered applying for the position supporting the COO - Commercial Banking?" WOW! I laughed and told her, "well actually I have and I am still considering it - but this phone call has confirmed that I should apply." That evening I stayed a little later at work and applied. By 8:15 a.m. the next day (April 23) HR had contacted my then executive to notify them that I had posted for the position and that I was being heavily considered as a candidate. Within the next two days I had a phone interview, had scheduled additional in-person interviews. By the end of the following week - I had completed 8 in-person interviews and was waiting. By 10:00 a.m. Monday, May 5 - I was offered the job. It was quick, quicker than anticipated. So quick - I barely had a chance to talk to my family about the opportunity. By the end of May I was in my new role! All along the way - God was giving me peace. I never once looked back - I was just looking ahead and allowing Him to lead. I remember after I hit the "apply now" button, I said out loud - at my desk - "well God, if this is what you want you will make it clear, I'm trusting you." An clear it was!! I'm so happy in my position - and can already see how this was a great move for me!
An intruder...it was a June Thursday at 12:32 p.m., I was at Danny's Deli enjoying lunch with a fellow admin., my cell phone caught my eye - as a phone number flashed on the screen. Not wanting to be rude I ignored the call. Within seconds the number flashed up on the screen again. I apologized and said I needed to get the call. "Ms. Thornton this is ADT and we have reports of your motion and front door alarms sounding at your residence - are you okay? Do you need us to call the authorities?"....stunned I didn't know what to say - I felt like I couldn't speak. I told the operator - I wasn't at home and she would need to call the police. I went back to the table and told my lunchmate - I had to leave, someone had broken into my home. The walk back to my desk seemed to take forever - I had to get my purse, keys, laptop, notify my boss. I couldn't get there fast enough - I had to leave. I remember not being able to figure out how to remove my laptop from the docking station and asking the co-worker next to me for help - he seemed confused as to why I couldn't figure it out. (I explained to him at a later time what had happened). I then had to get to my car and get home - again the walk to my car was forever, I walked really fast and then slowed down, really fast and then slow down - at one point I may have even been running. Finally to my car - I had to figure out how to get home. I called my sister - no answer, I had to tell someone - but what do I tell them, I knew nothing. Visions of possible damage to my home were filling my mind. Ugh...another traffic light - please just let me get home!! Finally, I reached home - the police officer walked up to me and asked how my day was...I mean really, what do you want me to say "Oh it's an awesome sun shiny day!"...um hello - I'm here because someone has broken into my home. To not give too many details - we entered the house, found a piece of evidence that confirmed someone had been or was in the house - upon my exit from the house the officer drew his weapon and announced "police - make yourself known"...all of this was going on in my quiet little home. I apologized to the police officer that I hadn't made my bed that morning - he just looked at me and said "It is okay, I have small children - so I'm sure your unmade bed can't compare to the mess they make". The intruder wasn't in the house - PTL, and upon further investigation we discovered how they entered. Thankfully my alarm system scared them - and they didn't have time to take anything of great value from my home...well except for my sense of security. The intruder was caught just two days later, and charges have been pressed and their trial begins in late October. I'm assuming at some point during this trial I will have to testify - and that seems slightly overwhelming, but God will be there with me. My sense of peace and security have begun to return - although I still wake up in the night fearing someone is in my home. But that isn't an every night occurrence - just a few times a week. I thank God for my security system - both on the day of the burglary and now as it helps give me an extra tangible layer of security.
A New Bundle of Joy brings the title of "Father"on Father's Day...As I had mentioned in previous posts my sister and brother-in-law were expecting their first child in late June - but Nephew #3 decided to make his appearance on Father's Day...the best gift a dad could ever receive. After many hours of labor, no progression of dilating and a fever that was rising the doctor's decided that my sister would have an emergency c-section - not what she had planned, but was more than agreeable due to the circumstances. He was born @ 8:56 a.m. weighing 9 pounds 22 inches long - and perfectly beautiful in the eyes of his auntie! :) He and my sister were both healthy, the fever reduced soon after delivery and within two days they were home. The family of 3 have adjusted quite well to their new normal - including the 10-11 hours of sleep each night. My sister recently returned to work, and that has brought some heartache - but she is praying the Lord will open up an opportunity for her to be able to reduce her days away from her bouncing happy boy!
Beach+Wedding+New BIL+New Nephew = All in One Week...Early August brought a family vacation to the beach. Everyone, except Nephew #1, went on the trip. We were sooo excited about the opportunity to get away for a week - and by the time the trip actually had arrived, we were all more than ready for some serious beach time. My family LOVES the beach!! During our planning of the trip - my youngest sister and {then} fiance considered getting married while we were away. After consideration it was decided they'd take full advantage of the opportunity with 99% of the family there. My new BIL's son had already planned to join us - and that was great to have him there with us. We were able to celebrate his 11th Birthday while there - and that was another special memory to have, as well. So now I'm the auntie of nine - 5 nieces and 4 nephews...the boys are quickly gaining on the girls!! The time away was great - and the opportunity to have the hardest decision be pool side or beach side, was WONDERFUL!!
Lots of time on my hands...I still find myself with lots of time on my hands, so I'm trying to find different "things" to do. I've done several crafts - I'll post about them soon. I spent a little more time in my gardens this summer and that was nice. I attempted to grow tomatoes - but wasn't as successful as I had hoped, so maybe next summer. I've started learning to sew with a sewing machine - and that is very exciting to me!! :) I'm looking forward to purchasing a "real" sewing machine soon into the new year. I've created various schedules - cleaning schedules, cooking schedules, craft schedules, encouragement to others schedules, etc. Summer is always a little slower in the kitchen, because it is so hot...with a semi-cooler than usual summer I did do a little more experimenting than usual this summer. Mastering a few recipes I've wanted to try - like buffalo sauce, oh yummolicious!! I was able to treat the new parents to a meal once a week for the first five weeks after delivery - and that was a great treat for me, and hopefully for them as well. With the cooler evenings approaching and fall-like Saturdays, I'm sure the oven will be warming up on a more frequent basis! Stay tuned.
Aging Parents - Summer brought a few hurdles in this area. About two weeks before we left on vacation my dad found out he needed a pacemaker placed - and it had to happen pre-vacation. So one week before we left, his pacemaker was placed. All went well with the placement and recovery has been pretty much event free. PTL! Mom is doing okay - but the Dementia is much more present these days, even with her meds. She still has her independence and can fully function as normal for the most part - but her reasoning/thought process, decision making rational are steadily deteriorating. As siblings we are always looking at ways to assist her, as much as she will let us - and still allow her to maintain that independence that she needs and we need her to have...it is a fine line, but so far we've walked it pretty well. The new "endeavor" is the grocery store and food preparation. We've learned, through observation, that mom quickly becomes overwhelmed with too many decisions - and she picks whatever she see first. For example - during a trip to the ice cream shop she would normally pick blackberry chip - it has been her "go to" for as long as I can remember. However, she recently selected Cherry - because it was the first option that she saw...when asked "are you sure - they have blackberry chip?" she said - "oh well then yes, I want that - I didn't see it on the list." Or when going to a restaurant she'll ask - "what are you having?" or "what do you like here?" This allows her {in her thought process} to not show us that she's struggling...but we've caught on, after she's ordered "not normal to her" options. So we always make sure we help her with her selection - in a very non-offensive way, pointing out options that we know she'd like. That said, we've noticed that when asking what they've (the parents) have had for dinner...it has been very random combinations of items. So we've come to the conclusion that determining what's for dinner may be slightly overwhelming and she selects whatever she first sees - like a tomato and onion sandwich, yes that was a recent item! Our plan - to join her in her grocery shopping and to create a meal schedule of what she has available, and assisting with pre-meal prep as much as we can...so that she is able to put together a more normal dinner. Together my family and I will make this journey as tolerable as possible for everyone involved, but I can't promise you I won't cry from time to time - as I watch my mom slowly slip away.
God has been continually gracious to me - with a new job, watching over my home, ministering in my church via VBS and the meal ministry, adding to my family, allowing me the opportunity to learn new things like sewing and doing crafts, and love for my parents as we walk this road of aging.
To God Be The Glory for Summer, 2014!!
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Saturday, September 27, 2014
Thursday, June 5, 2014
Oh Where to Begin...
So much has happened since my last post...as seems to be the case with my blog over the last few year - but with the new laptop, I'm hoping that blogging will again become a regular "thing".
So where do I begin - well Maria says we should "start at the very beginning it is a a very good place to start" {okay who else is singing...I heart Sound of Music!}
So the beginning...hmm, okay....
So that's where I've been. I'm sure I've missed out on some journey's along the way, but those are the mile markers that stick out to me!
Until our paths cross again...
So where do I begin - well Maria says we should "start at the very beginning it is a a very good place to start" {okay who else is singing...I heart Sound of Music!}
So the beginning...hmm, okay....
- Ryan and Jenni were married during sunset on the white sands of Marco Island surrounded by their families and a couple close friends last August. Then at Thanksgiving they announced Baby Young would be arriving in June, 2014. February revealed that Baby Young would be Baby Boy Young..and we eagerly anticipate his arrival in just a few weeks!!!! ..oh maybe I'm jumping ahead some!
- The end of August brought the start of school - and that meant Emily would move into the dorms for the first time, as she started her Sophomore year at Capital University. She spent her entire Senior year of high school in a program that allowed her to get her entire first year of college completed (and it was 100% paid for, including books and parking). So when she graduated from high school last spring, she also completed her Freshmen year of college. What an excellent opportunity that was for her. She has since completed her first year of dorm life and second year of college. I'm so proud of her. The kiddos also had a great year of school - Sophia finished 5th grade {wowzas!}, Elijah completed 4th grade, and Ayana ended 3rd grade. All of them had a stellar year - excellent grades, various acknowledgements along the way and much learning was had!!
- After several tests and doctors visits my wonderful mom was diagnosed with Early Onset Dementia - in late August early September. It was a blessing to find out what was causing the symptoms she had been experiencing for some time. Then in January/February we discovered that she had 3 degenerating discs in her back. Mom just turned 70 last summer, and prior to these aliments she had been extremely healthy and prided herself in the fact that she only took a multi-vitamin each day....and that was voluntary. It has been very hard to watch this happen. For the most part the meds that she is on help her dementia, and we are encouraging her to keep her routine normal and still do the things she loves/wants to do...we don't/can't coddle her, she won't and shouldn't allow it. The day will come when these things won't be a luxury anymore, and until then it's as normal as we can make it.
- In September I began attending a Life Group at church. We meet on Sunday evenings, most Sundays for a couple of hours, and it is a really great time. I am really learning to get to know each of them and I do look forward to our time together.
- In October my youngest sister, Kari, announced that she was engaged. She and her fiance, John plan to get married this summer.
- The first Saturday in November I spent 4.5 hours taking the Certified Administrative Professionals Exam...something I had wanted to take for many, many years - and I finally did it. After months of studying and reading, I took the hardest test in my life. Even with 19 years of administrative experience, I still struggled and completed with only 2 min. left to spare. My mind was fried literally. I got lost coming home - and usually I'm extremely good with directions, and especially when my destination is home! :) After almost 8 weeks of waiting I received the letter a day or so after Christmas, and I PASSED!!! I was soooooo proud of myself and shocked!! I had wanted this for so long and finally I was able to be successful and accomplish something I had so desperately wanted. I was beginning to lose hope in accomplishing my goals and attaining dreams I had had for many years. But this encouraged my heart. Many weren't surprised I passed, but I was - many never even asked about the test prep or how my studying was going (only once did something ask in the entire 9 months of studying). I don't know why that was - maybe they thought it was a given...I wasn't certain of anything until I received that letter
- The holiday were filled with busyness, traditions - some old, some new and a lot of joyful times. Christmas Eve held the arrival close friends daughter - Violet...that was a special Christmas treat!
- Winter was cold, colder and coldest - along with snow, snowy and snowed in. We learned phrase such as polar vortex and snow rollers. Even winter fanatics were ready for Winter 2013-2014 to END. It had been 20 years since temps reached as low as they did - for extended periods of time. 20 years ago - that seems like ages ago...but really 20 years was 1994 and that was the year I graduated from high school...YIKES!!
- Another trip to Hocking Hills - our 5th trip to be exact. It was a good weekend. The weather was nice. The food was great. Some didn't feel so well. Reecie girl - really struggled. But all-in-all it was a good weekend. Jenni, Lisa and I did a craft - to help pass the time on Saturday, and to allow Lisa to enjoy something she hadn't had much time to enjoy - since Violet's arrival. I enjoyed some kitchen therapy...I always enjoy that no matter where I am.
- Springtime brought another birthday - I struggled a little, but I tried to keep that to myself. Something I'm learning to do a lot of lately. I wasn't overly thrilled about celebrating - but people wanted to so I let them, but I would have been fine to just let it go on by this year. Don't get me wrong - God has blessed me in so many ways and he has graciously allowed for me to have 38 years on this earth...I don't take that lightly. But it is very obvious that something is missing. Someone once told me to not dwell on the situation - and I don't, they of course didn't see it that way. I dwell in the situation...and that is completely different.
- At the beginning of May I was offered a new job. I wasn't looking for a new job - I was very happy and content with my (then) current job. But several different occurrences led me to apply for the position and within 2 weeks of applying the position was mine. I began the new position last Tuesday. I really enjoy it - I'm learning a lot. My days are super busy and go very (almost at times too) fast. I know God has a plan for me here - and my desire is to bloom where he has planted me.
- Next week - I'm excited to say I'll be teaching VBS. Next week will be two years that I left the only other church I had known. It seems like it has been longer than 2 years, and other days it feels like it was just last week. But I LOVE my "new" church. I'm starting to learn names and remember them with faces (that match the names). God has really worked in my life in the last two years. He is stretched me and molded me, and that excites me. I look forward to working with the kids next week. I pray I'm a vessel that I teachable, used by and for God and a reflection of God's love.
So that's where I've been. I'm sure I've missed out on some journey's along the way, but those are the mile markers that stick out to me!
Until our paths cross again...
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
A Year and A Half - Seriously?...
Has it really been a year and a half since I last blogged...WOWZAS!! I sure have missed it, and much has happened in my life. Let's see since December 30, 2011 I've...
- kept up some on 40x2016 goals...to name a few - lots of recipes are happening in the Megalicious kitchen, I've built a shoe organizer and assemblied my garden hose housing unit, learned to trim the front bushes (self-taught...thank you very much...and I only distroyed one extension cord). I remain looking to accomplish these;
- been promoted to Executive Administrative Assistant. I was already doing many aspects of the job, so it was a nice to get the title (officially)...and a compensation reward as well;
- paid off my car...HUGE deal and a reminder of God's faithfulness of provision to me!!;
- started studying for the Certified Professional Secretaries Exam, which I'll take on Saturday, November 2. This will be a great accomplishment, and if I pass I plan to take the Organizational Management test the Spring, 2014. Both would be great assets to starting a Personal Assistant business;
- gone through another time of depression, and it is a daily struggle to overcome...but each day is better, and those days that aren't - well I have the next day to look forward to...Winter 2012/2013 was extremely rough;
- followed God's leading and in June, 2012 left the church I'd known my whole life. It was one of the hardest and most rewarding things I've ever done spiritually and emotionally. But God is growing me, breaking me and molding me to bring glory to Him;
- found a new church to call home, and I'm growing...but I want to grow so much more - and I'm looking forward to the summer bible study program they are offering. I'm hoping to meet new people...maybe even that someone special kind of people - ahem! But that's not the focus (well not totally...but I will be keeping an eye out!)
- watched my family grow physically and numerically. Well the numerical part will come on August 1st when my sister will marry the love of her life, who happens to also be one of my very best friends, during a sunset ceremony on the beach in Marco Island, FL! I'm so excited for them!! The nieces and nephews are growing physically (all but three are now taller than me), emotionally and intellectually - what a blessing to be a part of their lives. One niece graudated High School and will start college in the fall...so stinkin' proud of that young lady;
- watched my parent's age - this hasn't been easy;
- been re-certified in CPR, along with a good friend...have no fear when I'm around;
- found myself with a lot of free time, so I'm trying to figure out how to fill it - but not too much...been taking some classes to learn things I've always wanted to learn, attending a few ladies Bible studies and finding my way around the kitchen even more so than usual;
- organized a few different service projects for my family - with one being last summer when we made 60 sack lunches and took them to homeless people throughout the C-bus area...talk about a humbling experience. It was the hottest day of the entire summer - temps were well over 100*...thankfully we had cold bottles of water to give them as well. The thing I learned most that day - individuality is important to a homeless person...almost all of them instantly shared their name with us. Almost to say - "there is a name that goes with this face, and that makes me just like you...I'm a person, not a group!";
- not done much traveling - that I can think of...although I feel like I did...maybe that is just wishful thinking;
- experienced the strained seperation of a beloved family member. For a long time I tried to fix the situation myself; however, I learned that I had to give it ALL to God...and that's what I've done. Only God can change the heart and that is my prayer;
- lived at Villa de Megalicious (VdM) for 5 years now - again another reminder of God's faithful provision to me;
- remained single - not by choice. "Single and Desperately Looking" The desire to marry has intensified greatly, and the reality of my loneliness is there everyday...but I'm trusting God to provide in this area. I'm trying to do a few things to make myself more "out there"...like visible - not like..."oh that girl is out there!" So we will see!!; and
- started blogging again...after a long sabbatical. I've have probably missed a few things...but these seem to be the highlights that are coming to me right now!
Friday, December 30, 2011
"A Year in the Life..."
Here i sit at my computer, on a semi-cold December day {we've had many of those to date}, with less than 48 hours remaining in 2011. WOW what a year! Where did it go? Have you ever heard the term "bag of mixed emotions"? Well I feel that has been this year. I have experienced many happy moments, many ubberly exciting moments, moments when my heart hurt, moments filled with total agony - sadness - loneliness and defeat, moments of pure bliss and joy, moments of anxiousness, and moments of total peace and calm.
January started with Ayana going forward to accept Jesus Christ as her Savior, and Sophia going forward to be baptized! Talk about starting the year off right!! WOOT WOOT!! January also held the Ohio State Football Buckeyes winning the BCS Sugar Bowl - in the midst of a scandal, NCAA investigations and daily developments to the story that broke right before Christmas.{Little did we know what the rest of 2011 would bring to the beloved Buckeye football team}. I was part of a conspiracy, towards the end of January...on a very cold January Sunday night I drove to CMH to pick-up my friend, Beth. She was coming home, from China, as a surprise to her family during her break at Chinese New Year! What a sweet reunion in the airport, and the Megmobile was full of giggles and excitement as we drove as quickly as legal to her parent's home. The best part was standing outside in the middle of the frozen ice covered street, and hearing her mom scream with excitement and surprise as she ran into their home yelling "HAPPY NEW YEAR"!! It was by far one of the coolest things I've done to date!
February allowed me the opportunity to participate in a breakfast at the kiddos school. It was very cool to be back in the lunchroom that I ate in as an elementary student and to see the kiddos in their element. February was probably the month that held the most life changing events for me, as it started my quest to a healthier lifestyle. Thanks to a program at work that encouraged healthier life decisions - and offered a reward of $200 off your Medical Premium in 2012, if you met their challenge. Since I'm a sucker for ways to save money, I began looking at my life in terms of getting healthy with the reward of saving money as motivation! {Btw - I met the challenge requirements in May...WOOT WOOT!}. The doctor challenged me to loose 60 POUNDS!! He knows I'm a control freak - so he took the opportunity to remind me that there are only a few things in my life that I can control, and one of them is food. He then told me, "and you aren't controlling it." Those words put me right into my place, and changed my way of thinking. I've not had a regular soda since February, {accept the one I accidentally drank on Christmas - because I thought the can was diet...oops}, and regular soda was my "lifeline" or so I thought. My food choices are smarter - I still eat many of the things I want, but I have to account for those in my daily points, so I'm thinking before I'm eating. Everything in moderation. To date I've lost 35 pounds. I wanted to do this slow and steady - I want it to be a lifestyle change...not a flash in the pan kind of thing. Jenni and I began walking on Monday evenings, and I must say I feel much better physically and mentally. Sophia was baptized in mid-February, and her Dad was able to be there to witness it...little did we know that would be one of his last visits to IBC for several years, as a few days later he was arrested for Aggravated Vehicular Assault - relating to the accident he was involved in the Fall of 2010. Bringing many court hearings and legal sessions to both he and Kari - as she filed for full custody of the Kiddos {which was granted in September}.
March allowed me to use my planning skills to assist Jenni as she hosted Lisa's Bridal Shower. It was a beautiful event! I took on the task of making cupcakes - and I found the best buttercream recipe ever....I've used it several times since. The cupcakes and the shower were a hit by all who attended. March again allowed me to volunteer at the Nationwide Children's Hospital Infusion Weekend at Deercreek. I returned to the craft room, and enjoyed seeing old and new faces alike. March also brought a return to Hocking Hills for Ryan, Jenni, Tim, Lisa and I - and Reece too. We once again had a relaxing weekend, filled with beautiful weather, delicious food, hours of March Madness Basketball and plenty of laughter. It was a nice break in the routine of life - especially right before Tim and Lisa's wedding six weeks later. Steve, Wendy, Jenni, Kari and I participated in the Channel 10 Commit to Be Fit Challenge as the Flabbiless 5. We didn't win the contest, but we all lost weight - and that alone was a great reward!
April seems to have flashed right past. I hosted my first non-family overnight guests early in the month - with some of the IBC teen girls. It was nice to have other noise bellowing throughout VdM in the morning. After the girls left VdM - I headed to Mom and Dad's for what was supposed to be a day of shopping - but plans changed. While eating a piece of warmed coffee cake Mom experienced what we thought at the time to be a Stroke. I must say it was the SCARIEST moment of my life - I was there as the entire episode unfolded, and I must be honest that thoughts of loosing my Mom that day filled me with fear. Thankfully after many tests and scans, we found out that what she experienced was a reaction to something that she was eating and the physical temperature of the food - it was a natural reaction the body has to something that is too hot or too cold, and the symptoms are all similar to that of a Stroke. Since I love to cook/bake I decided I would prepare Easter Dinner for the family this year - a task I thoroughly enjoyed! The following weekend I had the honor of assisting two of my best friends on their wedding day. Tim and Lisa's wedding was beautiful, romantic and true reflection of their love for each other!! I also challenged myself with 40 goals to accomplish before May, 2016...this is the gift I gave to myself of birthday in May. I've worked towards many of them and have a accomplished a few, but I need to make greater strides at accomplishing them on a more regular basis.
May {my most favorite month}began with Breaking World News. I'll never forget - it was a Sunday night, and I was in bed early still trying to recover from the events of the weekend {Tim and Lisa's wedding}. I had the TV on for background noise, but was reading through cookbooks {hard to imagine, I know!}, and Brian Williams (NBC News Anchor) broke in and said, "President Obama will be addressing the country within the hour". I found this to be rather importantly odd and very much unsettling - I mean it was 9:00 p.m. on a Sunday evening...not many addresses from a President come on Sunday evenings at almost 10:00 p.m. that probably are of some tragic capacity. My attention was now half on the cookbooks and half on staying "tuned in" awaiting the address. After several delays the President took the podium and addressed the nation and the world, announcing that US Navy Seals had captured and killed Osama Bin Laden earlier that day - peace filled my mind, fear filled my mind. Hayden finished his first year of college at ODU in mid-May, and had his first Spring and Summer without baseball, since he was four. I also co-planned a Mother/Daughter Luncheon at IBC for the Saturday following Mother's Day...it was a nice event, and enjoyed by many. May also held my 35th Birthday - YIKES!! I hosted a birthday party for my family and some friends at my favorite past time location - outside of the kitchen - Outside the Lines Creative Studio. I think everyone enjoyed it...and some have even gone back on their own! Jim Tressel was fired as the Ohio State Football couch on Memorial Day weekend, as part of the continuing scandal that broke loose in December, 2010 - Luke Fickell was announced as Interim Couch for the 2011 Season.
June was a super busy month! The first Tuesday in June brought a dream of mine to reality. I planned, coordinated and hosted a Summer Bible Study at Villa de Megalicious on Tuesday evenings for teen girls going into or already in High School. It was a blessing and challenge - all at once. We studied "Lies Young Women Believe: and The Truth that Sets them Free". I had 4 girls who attended/participated each week. I'm hoping to continue a similar ministry this summer as well. In addition to the Bible Study, I also spent most non-working hours finalizing plans for VBS at IBC! Emily, along with the IBC teens spent a week in Utah doing Backyard Bible Clubs - and I was happy to work with the Bible Teachers to get them ready for their ministry. Their week show an increase in attendance each night and more of a connection to the church with the kids in that neighborhood - but best of all, it held the Spiritual Birthday of one of the kids who attended!. June held a small cut in Kari's apron strings, as Sophia attended her first year of Summer Camp at Scioto Hills - and had great week of growth both developmentally and spiritually.
July means extended amounts of sunshine, lots of time at the pool, yummy food at picnics and fireworks! And this year was no different! Gold Rush 2011, was a great week of ministry at IBC and we saw 90 kids attend VBS. IBC is blessed with many talented people that made my job of VBS Director. We continue to reach out to the VBS attendees through various means in hopes of seeing many attend IBC on a regular basis and begin/restore/continue a relationship with Jesus Christ. Once VBS had come to an end, I had more time to enjoy the extended amounts of sunlight and free time in the evening. Ayana played soccer this summer and loved it, so many Saturday mornings you could find me on the sidelines cheering her on. Elijah began Mai Thai - and I was able to catch a couple of his classes as well. The Kiddos spent a weekend with me, and we had a blast hanging at the pool, watching movies, walking to meet Jenni and Ryan for pizza, and just making memories! The Bible Study continued on Tuesday evenings - and was always a highlight to my week. The US State Department gave me permission to leave the country by granting me a passport - which worked out for plans I had made for August.
August brought a trip of a lifetime! Ryan, Jenni, Tim, Lisa and I (C5) boarded a plane in the wee hours of Saturday, August 13 and headed to CANCUN, MEXICO!!! OH it was wonderful, beautiful, peaceful, restful and every thing I thought it would be. The water was crystal clear, the white sand sparkled like diamonds, the hot sun baked us to golden tans {some more than others}, the food was outrageously delicious, the people were hardworking and hospitable, the experiences of the culture were eye opening and the memories will last a lifetime! August also brought one of the hardest days in the life of our family, as Terry (the kiddos father) was sentenced to four years in prison for his part in the accident from October, 2010. This was and has been the hardest part of our year - helping the kiddos understand and grasp this reality - was not and continues to be something we face on any given day. They are still very happy children, who are active in various activities and doing well in school. But once again their normal changed - and they (we) are still adjusting to this new normal. August brings the end of the Summer - and the start of a new school year. Hayden started his Sophomore at ODU and looking at internships for the Summer of 2012; Emily became a Junior and has begun the college selection process; Sophia entered 3rd grade, she loves arts and crafts, and is looking forward to playing basketball in January 2012; Elijah began 2nd grade and continues to love math and Lego's, and is becoming a Hockey fan; Ayana entered 1st grade and has acquired a love for reading, she wants to be a teacher one day, and she continues to keeps us laughing with her random remarks to life. August ended by celebrating Gabriella's first birthday. She is such a joy to our family and is growing so quickly. Her smile and personality are such a blessing to all of us. She knows how to say "more", "eat" and "thank you" in sign-language...in addition to learning to speak some basic 16 month words.
September began with Kari and the kiddos spending Labor Day Weekend Saturday with me poolside at VdM! We swam and soaked int the sun all day, ending the day with meeting Jenni for dinner that evening - it was a great day! Elijah decided he wanted to (as he says it) "show everyone that I (he) am a child of God's", and went forward for baptism. September also had me on the road again! As if Cancun wasn't enough the C5 filled a mini-van with duffle bags, coolers of cold beverages and containers of snacks - and headed for Nashville! We toured the Opyland Hotel and the Grand Ole Opry - where we sang "You are My Sunshine" on the stage. We walked all over Downtown Nashville and toured the Country Music Hall of Fame. Again, it was a great weekend! The next weekend found me meeting another food challenge - planning, preparing and cooking breakfast for the BFL/MRC Board and volunteers. I had been looking forward to this challenge for a long time! Everyone seemed to enjoy the food and I had several ask for recipes and if I catered or would consider catering other events! OH YIKES - not sure if I'm ready for all of that...I just LOVE to cook/bake for others! The Ohio State football team had a rough start to what was a very rough season. I returned as an IT leader, again this year.
October was a semi low-key month. I enjoyed the slow pace of the month. I took some time off towards the end of the month and enjoyed time of relaxation. I was able to go apple picking with Steve and his family, along with Wendy's Mom, Dad and Step-Mom...one of my favorite Fall Activities! The annual Thornton Family Harvest Party was again a highlight to kicking off the upcoming Thanksgiving/Christmas season. The kiddos allowed me to join them for Trick-Or-Treat again this year, and that was a lot of fun! I enjoyed the Missions Conference at IBC and the IT Missionary Progressive Dinner. The semi low-key schedule also allowed me to "get in" several of Emily's Volleyball games - where is was co-Captain of the Varsity team.
November brought Elijah getting baptised! It is always a highlight and blessing when you see someone in your family following Christ, in this act of obedience. Since there were no movies out that I wanted to see, I enjoyed pizza and movies at VdM on Veteran's Day. Ryan turned 30 this year - but he didn't allow for a big party. Heaven became a sweeter place on November 12, when Joan lost her battle with cancer and entered the joy of her reward. Thanksgiving Day I spent having breakfast with Mom, Dad, Jenni, Kari and the Kiddos - then went to Jenni's for the morning and most of the afternoon to look at ads and make our plan of attack. Jenni, Kari and I went, saw and conquered Toys R Us that evening- and then Jenni and I met up with Ryan (later joined by Tracy, Emily and Katie) at Kohl's. We shopped for about an hour and waited in line for another three...okay we were still able to shop during those three hours, depending on which section of the store we were in. Kohl's was followed by hitting up Steak-n-Shake at 4:00 a.m., then off to Old Navy at 5:00 a.m.. I was in bed by 6:00 a.m., and got up at 11:00 to hit the stores again - Kari joined us again that afternoon! The Thornton Family Thanksgiving was a great time as usual,, with good food and lots of laughter, on the Saturday after Thanksgiving...even though the Buckeyes lost to the team up North for the first time in 10 years. The T.E.A.C.H. team did a wonderful job of using their talents to minister in Jr. Church for the month...it is such a joy to watch the teens willingly use their gifts to honor God and minister to others.
December of course brought everything Christmas! But before that, came the announcement of Urban Meyer as head coach of the Ohio State Football Team....later in the month we learned that Ohio State would be made an example of by the NCAA, and their decision of punishment on the scandal that had broken one year before. The Christmas Concert at IBC was a great way to kick off the Christmas season...we are so blessed by many beautiful musical talents. Many in the family kept the tradition of sorting cards at IBC alive for the 24th year - we sorted over 1,700 cards this year. Christmas Eve at Jenni's included the addition of Ryan, his parents, brothers and Grandma Betty - we had a great time of food, games and lots of laughter. Christmas Eve also took Steve's family back at Wendy's dad's - which was a blessing for them! Christmas Day was filled with our traditions at Kari's, Church and then to Mom and Dad's for the family gift exchange. Later that evening some of us headed downtown for our annual visit to the State Auto Nativity and ended the night playing The LOGO Board Game. I've taken my traditional week-off from work, and I'm enjoying lots of time with family and relaxation.
2011 was the year of mixed emotions and new challenges - some self-imposed and others not so much, but I must admit, it was all in all a great year! 2012 is going to be a year of BIG changes for me, HARD changes - but changes that need to be made. However, I know that I will not walk this road alone - God will lead me and is leading me in these changes, and I'll have my family and friends to hold me up physically and emotionally when the road gets too steep.
Good-bye 2011 and Hello 2012!
January started with Ayana going forward to accept Jesus Christ as her Savior, and Sophia going forward to be baptized! Talk about starting the year off right!! WOOT WOOT!! January also held the Ohio State Football Buckeyes winning the BCS Sugar Bowl - in the midst of a scandal, NCAA investigations and daily developments to the story that broke right before Christmas.{Little did we know what the rest of 2011 would bring to the beloved Buckeye football team}. I was part of a conspiracy, towards the end of January...on a very cold January Sunday night I drove to CMH to pick-up my friend, Beth. She was coming home, from China, as a surprise to her family during her break at Chinese New Year! What a sweet reunion in the airport, and the Megmobile was full of giggles and excitement as we drove as quickly as legal to her parent's home. The best part was standing outside in the middle of the frozen ice covered street, and hearing her mom scream with excitement and surprise as she ran into their home yelling "HAPPY NEW YEAR"!! It was by far one of the coolest things I've done to date!
February allowed me the opportunity to participate in a breakfast at the kiddos school. It was very cool to be back in the lunchroom that I ate in as an elementary student and to see the kiddos in their element. February was probably the month that held the most life changing events for me, as it started my quest to a healthier lifestyle. Thanks to a program at work that encouraged healthier life decisions - and offered a reward of $200 off your Medical Premium in 2012, if you met their challenge. Since I'm a sucker for ways to save money, I began looking at my life in terms of getting healthy with the reward of saving money as motivation! {Btw - I met the challenge requirements in May...WOOT WOOT!}. The doctor challenged me to loose 60 POUNDS!! He knows I'm a control freak - so he took the opportunity to remind me that there are only a few things in my life that I can control, and one of them is food. He then told me, "and you aren't controlling it." Those words put me right into my place, and changed my way of thinking. I've not had a regular soda since February, {accept the one I accidentally drank on Christmas - because I thought the can was diet...oops}, and regular soda was my "lifeline" or so I thought. My food choices are smarter - I still eat many of the things I want, but I have to account for those in my daily points, so I'm thinking before I'm eating. Everything in moderation. To date I've lost 35 pounds. I wanted to do this slow and steady - I want it to be a lifestyle change...not a flash in the pan kind of thing. Jenni and I began walking on Monday evenings, and I must say I feel much better physically and mentally. Sophia was baptized in mid-February, and her Dad was able to be there to witness it...little did we know that would be one of his last visits to IBC for several years, as a few days later he was arrested for Aggravated Vehicular Assault - relating to the accident he was involved in the Fall of 2010. Bringing many court hearings and legal sessions to both he and Kari - as she filed for full custody of the Kiddos {which was granted in September}.
March allowed me to use my planning skills to assist Jenni as she hosted Lisa's Bridal Shower. It was a beautiful event! I took on the task of making cupcakes - and I found the best buttercream recipe ever....I've used it several times since. The cupcakes and the shower were a hit by all who attended. March again allowed me to volunteer at the Nationwide Children's Hospital Infusion Weekend at Deercreek. I returned to the craft room, and enjoyed seeing old and new faces alike. March also brought a return to Hocking Hills for Ryan, Jenni, Tim, Lisa and I - and Reece too. We once again had a relaxing weekend, filled with beautiful weather, delicious food, hours of March Madness Basketball and plenty of laughter. It was a nice break in the routine of life - especially right before Tim and Lisa's wedding six weeks later. Steve, Wendy, Jenni, Kari and I participated in the Channel 10 Commit to Be Fit Challenge as the Flabbiless 5. We didn't win the contest, but we all lost weight - and that alone was a great reward!
April seems to have flashed right past. I hosted my first non-family overnight guests early in the month - with some of the IBC teen girls. It was nice to have other noise bellowing throughout VdM in the morning. After the girls left VdM - I headed to Mom and Dad's for what was supposed to be a day of shopping - but plans changed. While eating a piece of warmed coffee cake Mom experienced what we thought at the time to be a Stroke. I must say it was the SCARIEST moment of my life - I was there as the entire episode unfolded, and I must be honest that thoughts of loosing my Mom that day filled me with fear. Thankfully after many tests and scans, we found out that what she experienced was a reaction to something that she was eating and the physical temperature of the food - it was a natural reaction the body has to something that is too hot or too cold, and the symptoms are all similar to that of a Stroke. Since I love to cook/bake I decided I would prepare Easter Dinner for the family this year - a task I thoroughly enjoyed! The following weekend I had the honor of assisting two of my best friends on their wedding day. Tim and Lisa's wedding was beautiful, romantic and true reflection of their love for each other!! I also challenged myself with 40 goals to accomplish before May, 2016...this is the gift I gave to myself of birthday in May. I've worked towards many of them and have a accomplished a few, but I need to make greater strides at accomplishing them on a more regular basis.
May {my most favorite month}began with Breaking World News. I'll never forget - it was a Sunday night, and I was in bed early still trying to recover from the events of the weekend {Tim and Lisa's wedding}. I had the TV on for background noise, but was reading through cookbooks {hard to imagine, I know!}, and Brian Williams (NBC News Anchor) broke in and said, "President Obama will be addressing the country within the hour". I found this to be rather importantly odd and very much unsettling - I mean it was 9:00 p.m. on a Sunday evening...not many addresses from a President come on Sunday evenings at almost 10:00 p.m. that probably are of some tragic capacity. My attention was now half on the cookbooks and half on staying "tuned in" awaiting the address. After several delays the President took the podium and addressed the nation and the world, announcing that US Navy Seals had captured and killed Osama Bin Laden earlier that day - peace filled my mind, fear filled my mind. Hayden finished his first year of college at ODU in mid-May, and had his first Spring and Summer without baseball, since he was four. I also co-planned a Mother/Daughter Luncheon at IBC for the Saturday following Mother's Day...it was a nice event, and enjoyed by many. May also held my 35th Birthday - YIKES!! I hosted a birthday party for my family and some friends at my favorite past time location - outside of the kitchen - Outside the Lines Creative Studio. I think everyone enjoyed it...and some have even gone back on their own! Jim Tressel was fired as the Ohio State Football couch on Memorial Day weekend, as part of the continuing scandal that broke loose in December, 2010 - Luke Fickell was announced as Interim Couch for the 2011 Season.
June was a super busy month! The first Tuesday in June brought a dream of mine to reality. I planned, coordinated and hosted a Summer Bible Study at Villa de Megalicious on Tuesday evenings for teen girls going into or already in High School. It was a blessing and challenge - all at once. We studied "Lies Young Women Believe: and The Truth that Sets them Free". I had 4 girls who attended/participated each week. I'm hoping to continue a similar ministry this summer as well. In addition to the Bible Study, I also spent most non-working hours finalizing plans for VBS at IBC! Emily, along with the IBC teens spent a week in Utah doing Backyard Bible Clubs - and I was happy to work with the Bible Teachers to get them ready for their ministry. Their week show an increase in attendance each night and more of a connection to the church with the kids in that neighborhood - but best of all, it held the Spiritual Birthday of one of the kids who attended!. June held a small cut in Kari's apron strings, as Sophia attended her first year of Summer Camp at Scioto Hills - and had great week of growth both developmentally and spiritually.
July means extended amounts of sunshine, lots of time at the pool, yummy food at picnics and fireworks! And this year was no different! Gold Rush 2011, was a great week of ministry at IBC and we saw 90 kids attend VBS. IBC is blessed with many talented people that made my job of VBS Director. We continue to reach out to the VBS attendees through various means in hopes of seeing many attend IBC on a regular basis and begin/restore/continue a relationship with Jesus Christ. Once VBS had come to an end, I had more time to enjoy the extended amounts of sunlight and free time in the evening. Ayana played soccer this summer and loved it, so many Saturday mornings you could find me on the sidelines cheering her on. Elijah began Mai Thai - and I was able to catch a couple of his classes as well. The Kiddos spent a weekend with me, and we had a blast hanging at the pool, watching movies, walking to meet Jenni and Ryan for pizza, and just making memories! The Bible Study continued on Tuesday evenings - and was always a highlight to my week. The US State Department gave me permission to leave the country by granting me a passport - which worked out for plans I had made for August.
August brought a trip of a lifetime! Ryan, Jenni, Tim, Lisa and I (C5) boarded a plane in the wee hours of Saturday, August 13 and headed to CANCUN, MEXICO!!! OH it was wonderful, beautiful, peaceful, restful and every thing I thought it would be. The water was crystal clear, the white sand sparkled like diamonds, the hot sun baked us to golden tans {some more than others}, the food was outrageously delicious, the people were hardworking and hospitable, the experiences of the culture were eye opening and the memories will last a lifetime! August also brought one of the hardest days in the life of our family, as Terry (the kiddos father) was sentenced to four years in prison for his part in the accident from October, 2010. This was and has been the hardest part of our year - helping the kiddos understand and grasp this reality - was not and continues to be something we face on any given day. They are still very happy children, who are active in various activities and doing well in school. But once again their normal changed - and they (we) are still adjusting to this new normal. August brings the end of the Summer - and the start of a new school year. Hayden started his Sophomore at ODU and looking at internships for the Summer of 2012; Emily became a Junior and has begun the college selection process; Sophia entered 3rd grade, she loves arts and crafts, and is looking forward to playing basketball in January 2012; Elijah began 2nd grade and continues to love math and Lego's, and is becoming a Hockey fan; Ayana entered 1st grade and has acquired a love for reading, she wants to be a teacher one day, and she continues to keeps us laughing with her random remarks to life. August ended by celebrating Gabriella's first birthday. She is such a joy to our family and is growing so quickly. Her smile and personality are such a blessing to all of us. She knows how to say "more", "eat" and "thank you" in sign-language...in addition to learning to speak some basic 16 month words.
September began with Kari and the kiddos spending Labor Day Weekend Saturday with me poolside at VdM! We swam and soaked int the sun all day, ending the day with meeting Jenni for dinner that evening - it was a great day! Elijah decided he wanted to (as he says it) "show everyone that I (he) am a child of God's", and went forward for baptism. September also had me on the road again! As if Cancun wasn't enough the C5 filled a mini-van with duffle bags, coolers of cold beverages and containers of snacks - and headed for Nashville! We toured the Opyland Hotel and the Grand Ole Opry - where we sang "You are My Sunshine" on the stage. We walked all over Downtown Nashville and toured the Country Music Hall of Fame. Again, it was a great weekend! The next weekend found me meeting another food challenge - planning, preparing and cooking breakfast for the BFL/MRC Board and volunteers. I had been looking forward to this challenge for a long time! Everyone seemed to enjoy the food and I had several ask for recipes and if I catered or would consider catering other events! OH YIKES - not sure if I'm ready for all of that...I just LOVE to cook/bake for others! The Ohio State football team had a rough start to what was a very rough season. I returned as an IT leader, again this year.
October was a semi low-key month. I enjoyed the slow pace of the month. I took some time off towards the end of the month and enjoyed time of relaxation. I was able to go apple picking with Steve and his family, along with Wendy's Mom, Dad and Step-Mom...one of my favorite Fall Activities! The annual Thornton Family Harvest Party was again a highlight to kicking off the upcoming Thanksgiving/Christmas season. The kiddos allowed me to join them for Trick-Or-Treat again this year, and that was a lot of fun! I enjoyed the Missions Conference at IBC and the IT Missionary Progressive Dinner. The semi low-key schedule also allowed me to "get in" several of Emily's Volleyball games - where is was co-Captain of the Varsity team.
November brought Elijah getting baptised! It is always a highlight and blessing when you see someone in your family following Christ, in this act of obedience. Since there were no movies out that I wanted to see, I enjoyed pizza and movies at VdM on Veteran's Day. Ryan turned 30 this year - but he didn't allow for a big party. Heaven became a sweeter place on November 12, when Joan lost her battle with cancer and entered the joy of her reward. Thanksgiving Day I spent having breakfast with Mom, Dad, Jenni, Kari and the Kiddos - then went to Jenni's for the morning and most of the afternoon to look at ads and make our plan of attack. Jenni, Kari and I went, saw and conquered Toys R Us that evening- and then Jenni and I met up with Ryan (later joined by Tracy, Emily and Katie) at Kohl's. We shopped for about an hour and waited in line for another three...okay we were still able to shop during those three hours, depending on which section of the store we were in. Kohl's was followed by hitting up Steak-n-Shake at 4:00 a.m., then off to Old Navy at 5:00 a.m.. I was in bed by 6:00 a.m., and got up at 11:00 to hit the stores again - Kari joined us again that afternoon! The Thornton Family Thanksgiving was a great time as usual,, with good food and lots of laughter, on the Saturday after Thanksgiving...even though the Buckeyes lost to the team up North for the first time in 10 years. The T.E.A.C.H. team did a wonderful job of using their talents to minister in Jr. Church for the month...it is such a joy to watch the teens willingly use their gifts to honor God and minister to others.
December of course brought everything Christmas! But before that, came the announcement of Urban Meyer as head coach of the Ohio State Football Team....later in the month we learned that Ohio State would be made an example of by the NCAA, and their decision of punishment on the scandal that had broken one year before. The Christmas Concert at IBC was a great way to kick off the Christmas season...we are so blessed by many beautiful musical talents. Many in the family kept the tradition of sorting cards at IBC alive for the 24th year - we sorted over 1,700 cards this year. Christmas Eve at Jenni's included the addition of Ryan, his parents, brothers and Grandma Betty - we had a great time of food, games and lots of laughter. Christmas Eve also took Steve's family back at Wendy's dad's - which was a blessing for them! Christmas Day was filled with our traditions at Kari's, Church and then to Mom and Dad's for the family gift exchange. Later that evening some of us headed downtown for our annual visit to the State Auto Nativity and ended the night playing The LOGO Board Game. I've taken my traditional week-off from work, and I'm enjoying lots of time with family and relaxation.
2011 was the year of mixed emotions and new challenges - some self-imposed and others not so much, but I must admit, it was all in all a great year! 2012 is going to be a year of BIG changes for me, HARD changes - but changes that need to be made. However, I know that I will not walk this road alone - God will lead me and is leading me in these changes, and I'll have my family and friends to hold me up physically and emotionally when the road gets too steep.
Good-bye 2011 and Hello 2012!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
2009 - The Recap
2009 has been a year of transition in so many ways. But God has been there with me through each transition - and I've enjoyed watching him take my hand and walking with me. Below are some of the adventures, I experienced.
January:
IBC learned that it's sweet Penny was diagnosed with a rare form of Cervical Cancer. Through 2009 the IBC family has rallied around the Hoffman Family (and their extended family) to support them with meals, childcare and the everyday practical needs that came their way. We also, along with saints across the globe, rallied around the Throne of God to lay our pleas of healing at God's feet. To date, we've not seen healing - but we haven't lost our hope and we have be drawn closer together.
I notified various individuals of my decision to step down from a few positions/roles at IBC. Only God knew the blessing that would come with this difficult task.
On the same evening I found out that two of my closest friends were going to be Mommy's for the first time. It wasn't planned that they tell us on the same evening - it just happened that way.
A reorganization annoucement was made that impacted my job greatly. It's been a high stress environment since then at work. But God has allowed me to be a testimony to those with whom I spend 40 hours a week. January 2010, will hold the annoucement of whether I'll continue to work for Direct Energy after June 3, 2010.
A Level Two Snow Emergency closed the DE Dublin office for two days and we all worked from our homes. It also closed IBC's doors for a Wednesday night prayer meeting.
February:
Brought my friends Phil & Gina back to Columbus from Clarks Summit, PA. I've enjoyed having them back home. :)
A group of ladies spent the morning and afternoon making meals at Super Suppers as a Labor of Love for the Hoffman Family.
I assisted Sophia in making a Spaghetti Dinner for the Thornton Family - to include salad, garlic bread and Chocolate Fudge Cake with Pink Icing and Sprinkles.
March:
Emily spent the months of February, March and April playing on a Club Volleyball Team.
April:
I chaperoned a class trip to Virginia Beach, VA with Hayden's classmates from the WHS Ensemble. This was the first time I'd traveled with non-christian teens...it really opened my eyes up to the world that they live in, and gave me a greater passion for that generation. It also allowed me to open up to people, as I went knowing only Hayden and handful of other students - but none of the adults. It was a huge step for me - but I'm looking forward to doing it again in the Spring of 2010.
May:
IBC celebrated 75 years of service to the westside of Columbus with a Homecoming Service and Lunch.
IBC was shocked and saddened by the news that Pastor Bill and Peggy would be leaving IBC at the end of June, 2009. They are greatly missed, but their example to follow Christ has left a wonderful impression on so many.
June:
Sophia accepted Christ as her Personal Savior! :)
Hayden was named as Second Team All-City for his efforts on the Baseball field.
I celebrated one year in Villa de Megalicious! :)
Kari turned 30 and Wendy turned 40! All in the same weekend! :)
July:
Kari and the kiddos moved from Mom and Dad's to their own place. Kari's first place, since returning to Columbus in 2006. They love their little place! :)
I coordinated an all church meal (for 250+) in PB & Peggy's honor. It was a privilege to be asked to coordinate. I enjoyed the experience, and the opportunity to thank PB & Peggy for the impact they made on my life during their 25 years at IBC.
I BLASTed OFF on week's adventure into "space" during IBC's VBS program. VBS is my most favorite ministry!! :)
I began serving on the IBC Pastoral Search Committee.
Emily had her first TLC experience! She loved it and knew she would! :)
August:
The Thornton Family (minus Steve, Wendy & Ashley) packed up two vehicles and headed to Panama City Beach for a wonderful time of rest, relaxation and fun in the sun. We also experienced our first Tropical Storm (Claudette) on day two of our trip! :)
Maxton Lukas entered this world!!
Hayden became a Senior in High School, Emily joined the ranks of 7 other Thornton's to enter West High School as a student. Sophia entered the First Grade, and Elijah changed Westgate Elementary history forever becoming a Kindergartner.
I become Special Events Coordinator for the WHS Athletic Booster Association. I LOVE this volunteer job! :)
September:
Olivia Sue entered this world!!
October:
Hayden was named Top Ten for the WHS Homecoming Court.
Elijah was named "Citizen of the Month" for his class! In his words, "it took a lot of hard work. I had to be very quiet!"
I enjoyed an extended weekend Staycation - topped off with my annual visit to the Circleville Pumpkin Show and going apple picking for the first time. I LOVE FALL!!
November:
IBC called Max Tucker as Interim Pastor for 3 months to begin in December, 2009.
I helped coordinate a wedding for my friends Seth & Crystal. I started taking courses earlier in 2009, and I'm still working to complete them - but the experience was great! :)
The Buckeye football team beat Michigan for the sixth straight year and again claimed the title of "Big Ten Champions"!!
Hayden was accepted to Capital University! This made his Aunt Jenni (a CU alum) very happy! :)
December:
Ashley turned 20!
Jenni became a fan of the new trend of Staycationers!! She had never done such a "trip", but I have a feeling she'll return there one day! :)
Beth came home from China to visit for two weeks during Christmas! It was wonderful to see her and to hear her share about everything she has done in the last 18 months!!
I gave Ayana her first Bible for Christmas. My tradition has been that each niece/nephew receive their first Bible on the Christmas that they are 5. However, Ayana began asking for a Bible in August, and I couldn't make her wait an entire year plus, for her own copy of God's Word. She was so excited, when she opened it on Christmas afternoon! She looked at her mom and whispered, "I love Meggie!"
2009 transformed many of the normals in my life - but most importantly, I pray that it transformed me to be closer to God and the person He wants me to be.
January:
IBC learned that it's sweet Penny was diagnosed with a rare form of Cervical Cancer. Through 2009 the IBC family has rallied around the Hoffman Family (and their extended family) to support them with meals, childcare and the everyday practical needs that came their way. We also, along with saints across the globe, rallied around the Throne of God to lay our pleas of healing at God's feet. To date, we've not seen healing - but we haven't lost our hope and we have be drawn closer together.
I notified various individuals of my decision to step down from a few positions/roles at IBC. Only God knew the blessing that would come with this difficult task.
On the same evening I found out that two of my closest friends were going to be Mommy's for the first time. It wasn't planned that they tell us on the same evening - it just happened that way.
A reorganization annoucement was made that impacted my job greatly. It's been a high stress environment since then at work. But God has allowed me to be a testimony to those with whom I spend 40 hours a week. January 2010, will hold the annoucement of whether I'll continue to work for Direct Energy after June 3, 2010.
A Level Two Snow Emergency closed the DE Dublin office for two days and we all worked from our homes. It also closed IBC's doors for a Wednesday night prayer meeting.
February:
Brought my friends Phil & Gina back to Columbus from Clarks Summit, PA. I've enjoyed having them back home. :)
A group of ladies spent the morning and afternoon making meals at Super Suppers as a Labor of Love for the Hoffman Family.
I assisted Sophia in making a Spaghetti Dinner for the Thornton Family - to include salad, garlic bread and Chocolate Fudge Cake with Pink Icing and Sprinkles.
March:
Emily spent the months of February, March and April playing on a Club Volleyball Team.
April:
I chaperoned a class trip to Virginia Beach, VA with Hayden's classmates from the WHS Ensemble. This was the first time I'd traveled with non-christian teens...it really opened my eyes up to the world that they live in, and gave me a greater passion for that generation. It also allowed me to open up to people, as I went knowing only Hayden and handful of other students - but none of the adults. It was a huge step for me - but I'm looking forward to doing it again in the Spring of 2010.
May:
IBC celebrated 75 years of service to the westside of Columbus with a Homecoming Service and Lunch.
IBC was shocked and saddened by the news that Pastor Bill and Peggy would be leaving IBC at the end of June, 2009. They are greatly missed, but their example to follow Christ has left a wonderful impression on so many.
June:
Sophia accepted Christ as her Personal Savior! :)
Hayden was named as Second Team All-City for his efforts on the Baseball field.
I celebrated one year in Villa de Megalicious! :)
Kari turned 30 and Wendy turned 40! All in the same weekend! :)
July:
Kari and the kiddos moved from Mom and Dad's to their own place. Kari's first place, since returning to Columbus in 2006. They love their little place! :)
I coordinated an all church meal (for 250+) in PB & Peggy's honor. It was a privilege to be asked to coordinate. I enjoyed the experience, and the opportunity to thank PB & Peggy for the impact they made on my life during their 25 years at IBC.
I BLASTed OFF on week's adventure into "space" during IBC's VBS program. VBS is my most favorite ministry!! :)
I began serving on the IBC Pastoral Search Committee.
Emily had her first TLC experience! She loved it and knew she would! :)
August:
The Thornton Family (minus Steve, Wendy & Ashley) packed up two vehicles and headed to Panama City Beach for a wonderful time of rest, relaxation and fun in the sun. We also experienced our first Tropical Storm (Claudette) on day two of our trip! :)
Maxton Lukas entered this world!!
Hayden became a Senior in High School, Emily joined the ranks of 7 other Thornton's to enter West High School as a student. Sophia entered the First Grade, and Elijah changed Westgate Elementary history forever becoming a Kindergartner.
I become Special Events Coordinator for the WHS Athletic Booster Association. I LOVE this volunteer job! :)
September:
Olivia Sue entered this world!!
October:
Hayden was named Top Ten for the WHS Homecoming Court.
Elijah was named "Citizen of the Month" for his class! In his words, "it took a lot of hard work. I had to be very quiet!"
I enjoyed an extended weekend Staycation - topped off with my annual visit to the Circleville Pumpkin Show and going apple picking for the first time. I LOVE FALL!!
November:
IBC called Max Tucker as Interim Pastor for 3 months to begin in December, 2009.
I helped coordinate a wedding for my friends Seth & Crystal. I started taking courses earlier in 2009, and I'm still working to complete them - but the experience was great! :)
The Buckeye football team beat Michigan for the sixth straight year and again claimed the title of "Big Ten Champions"!!
Hayden was accepted to Capital University! This made his Aunt Jenni (a CU alum) very happy! :)
December:
Ashley turned 20!
Jenni became a fan of the new trend of Staycationers!! She had never done such a "trip", but I have a feeling she'll return there one day! :)
Beth came home from China to visit for two weeks during Christmas! It was wonderful to see her and to hear her share about everything she has done in the last 18 months!!
I gave Ayana her first Bible for Christmas. My tradition has been that each niece/nephew receive their first Bible on the Christmas that they are 5. However, Ayana began asking for a Bible in August, and I couldn't make her wait an entire year plus, for her own copy of God's Word. She was so excited, when she opened it on Christmas afternoon! She looked at her mom and whispered, "I love Meggie!"
2009 transformed many of the normals in my life - but most importantly, I pray that it transformed me to be closer to God and the person He wants me to be.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
"I want to go to Heaven..."
Sunday was a happy day in the Thornton family, after months of asking questions Sophia went forward after the morning service at IBC, to accept Jesus Christ as her Savior!! PTL!!
Later that evening, I was sitting on the front porch of my parents house with Sophia and Ayana. Ayana was busy reading books to Raspberry and Rainbow Sunshine - her two favorite stuffed animals. I began to talk to Sophia about the decision she had made. Making sure she did completely understand her decision I asked, "Sophia - now that you asked Jesus to be your Savior, what does that mean?" She responded, "It means I get to go to Heaven!" Ayana quickly turned her head and the conversation went as follows:
Ayana: "Sophie, you get to go to Heaven?" (in a some what jealous voice)
Sophia: "Yes!"
Ayana: "That means you will get to see Bert. Bert is in Heaven. I want to see Bert. I want to go to Heaven."
Sophia: "Well then you need to ask Jesus to come into your heart, Ayana."
Ayana then looked at Sophia with a somewhat confused look on her face...the normal response of a four year old to that subject matter.
Ayana: (in a determined voice) "I miss Bert and I want to see her. I want to go to Heaven."
Ayana then walked off the porch.
I asked where she was going. She pointed to the sky and said, "I'm going to go to Heaven to see Bert." Then walked down the sidewalk with a look of determination on her little face.
Ahh...the innocence of a child, makes me smile and often makes me giggle or laugh!
I love that Sophia was so quick to respond with how someone can get to Heaven, I pray that continues. Especially as she shares her news with her Dad, his family and her friends at school.
I love that Ayana still remembers Bert (Ayana speaks OFTEN about Bert and missing her), even though Bert hasn't been with us for almost a year. I love her desire to go to Heaven - even if it isn't for the reason of wanting to avoid Hell, at least in her 4 year old mind she knows what Heaven is and that it is a place she wants to go. I pray that this desire remains and that she too will one day proclaim Jesus as her one and only way to Heaven.
Later that evening, I was sitting on the front porch of my parents house with Sophia and Ayana. Ayana was busy reading books to Raspberry and Rainbow Sunshine - her two favorite stuffed animals. I began to talk to Sophia about the decision she had made. Making sure she did completely understand her decision I asked, "Sophia - now that you asked Jesus to be your Savior, what does that mean?" She responded, "It means I get to go to Heaven!" Ayana quickly turned her head and the conversation went as follows:
Ayana: "Sophie, you get to go to Heaven?" (in a some what jealous voice)
Sophia: "Yes!"
Ayana: "That means you will get to see Bert. Bert is in Heaven. I want to see Bert. I want to go to Heaven."
Sophia: "Well then you need to ask Jesus to come into your heart, Ayana."
Ayana then looked at Sophia with a somewhat confused look on her face...the normal response of a four year old to that subject matter.
Ayana: (in a determined voice) "I miss Bert and I want to see her. I want to go to Heaven."
Ayana then walked off the porch.
I asked where she was going. She pointed to the sky and said, "I'm going to go to Heaven to see Bert." Then walked down the sidewalk with a look of determination on her little face.
Ahh...the innocence of a child, makes me smile and often makes me giggle or laugh!
I love that Sophia was so quick to respond with how someone can get to Heaven, I pray that continues. Especially as she shares her news with her Dad, his family and her friends at school.
I love that Ayana still remembers Bert (Ayana speaks OFTEN about Bert and missing her), even though Bert hasn't been with us for almost a year. I love her desire to go to Heaven - even if it isn't for the reason of wanting to avoid Hell, at least in her 4 year old mind she knows what Heaven is and that it is a place she wants to go. I pray that this desire remains and that she too will one day proclaim Jesus as her one and only way to Heaven.
Monday, February 16, 2009
Homemade Memories...
I love tradition, and I try to build as many traditions into my life as possible. Tradition = memories. Memories = a legacy. A tradition that I love is each year getting the nieces and nephews a new book for Christmas. Usually this tradition fades as they become teenagers...although if a good book comes my way that I think the would actually read, then it's given. Back to the tradition...each year as I begin to brainstorm and ask for "wish lists", I usually ask what kind of book that child wants that year. Last year (2007) Ayana told me she wanted a scary book...so I figured "Where the Wild Things Are" would be scary enough for a (then) 2 1/2 year old!! I try to make sure the classics are given "The Little Engine That Could" (my personal favorite), "The Very Hungary Caterpillar", "Corduroy", etc....if they haven't already been received in previous years. Well this year I approached Sophia about her book...I asked what kind of book she'd like to have and she said she wanted a cookbook. Oh for the blog followers who know me well - can only imagine the excitement that filled my whole being and the happy dance that I was doing - since I am a 
cookbook lover and collector. "A COOKBOOK!!! (High pitched voice and a cheesy smile) Oh Sophia...a cookbook it is!", I replied. For several days I researched children's cookbooks. It couldn't be just any ordinary cookbook - there was a criteria. It had to have real dishes - not something like...Princess Pie. I wanted it to include an explanation of cooking terms, utensils, the food groups, etc. I wanted it to be a source for her to use not just now when she is 6 (with very limited cooking privileges), but to use for years down the road. So I searched and I settled on the "Betty Crocker's Kids Cook". It has a nice variety of everyday foods and it's broken down into meal categories. It has fun pictures, and met the criteria I had set. I couldn't wait for her to open her gift.
While shopping this past weekend Emily found an adorable apron/hat set that would fit this evening's agenda. I of course, thought it would just top off the evening, and it came home with me. Sophia LOVED the apron, but wasn't too excited about the hat. We all loved the hat. But she only kept it on long enough for everyone to see and for this picture...of which we had to beg her to let us take. She finally gave in to our begging, but wouldn't smile!!
cookbook lover and collector. "A COOKBOOK!!! (High pitched voice and a cheesy smile) Oh Sophia...a cookbook it is!", I replied. For several days I researched children's cookbooks. It couldn't be just any ordinary cookbook - there was a criteria. It had to have real dishes - not something like...Princess Pie. I wanted it to include an explanation of cooking terms, utensils, the food groups, etc. I wanted it to be a source for her to use not just now when she is 6 (with very limited cooking privileges), but to use for years down the road. So I searched and I settled on the "Betty Crocker's Kids Cook". It has a nice variety of everyday foods and it's broken down into meal categories. It has fun pictures, and met the criteria I had set. I couldn't wait for her to open her gift.Part of this tradition, is that I try to write a note in the new book - even if just "Merry Christmas (year inserted), Love Aunt Meggie". I try to make a personal application to the book - but how personal can you get with "The Very Hungary Caterpillar". But this year, I wrote Sophia a note, about how happy I was that she wanted to learn to cook...I knew her love of cooking would one day carry on my legacy of cooking. I also promised that one a day that she didn't have to go school and I didn't have to work - she could select some recipes from her new book and we would make dinner for the family.
This evening was the date that was selected several weeks back - Sophia's school had Parent/Teacher Conferences and my office was closed for President's Day. Since it was our special project, I allowed Sophia complete control of the menu. Her selection: Spaghetti, Chocolate Cake with pink icing and sprinkles - Sophia loves sprinkles on anything!! Fairly simple menu - kid pleasing and economically friendly (aka cheap!). I added a salad and garlic bread to the menu, and invited the entire Thornton/Knisley Family over to Mom & Dad's - dinner to be served around 6:15-6:30. The family began to arrive around 5:30 or so, everyone was able to make it except for Uncle Steve - he had to work a double today. But have no fear...leftovers were sent his way! In an effort to make sure that order was kept, I decided that dinner would be served by the course. Sophia sat the table, prior to almost every one's arrival. While the garlic bread was baking we mixed up the cake (she dumped everything in the bowl, cracked the eggs and mixed with a rubber spatula - I just measured and made sure it all looked evenly mixed before placing in the cake pan). We then began the water boiling/noodle cooking process...she even helped break the uncooked noodles in half. Dad had made his homemade sauce, so it was just a matter of re-heating!!! After licking the spoon and bowl of the cake batter, she sat two baskets for Texas Toast garlic bread out for everyone to enjoy during the salad portion of dinner. Sophia lovingly filled each salad bowl and then served them on her little tray. After delivering the salads she took drink orders, while I was finishing the noodles and putting the cake in the oven. As drinks were being delivered - again on her little serving tray, I filled each plate from the kitchen and told her who was to receive that particular plate of spaghetti. The entire time she was just beaming with joy - and was so happy to be serving her family. At last it was our turn to sit down, and join the family for dinner - with the cake cooling on the counter. After dinner, without any adult instruction or encouragement - she went around to the table asking if everyone was finished and she cleared their plates. Carrying them back into the kitchen on that same little serving tray. I was amazed!!! By this point the cake had cooled, so we iced, decorated and served dessert.
It was such a wonderful evening with the majority of the family gathered around the dinner table. Praising Sophia for such a tasty dinner!!! What a wonderful way to end a 3 day weekend. Homemade memories, good food and family time!! After everyone left Mom & Dad's - I asked Sophia if she had fun. She excitedly shook her head yes, and asked what we were going to do next time. I was still re-couping from this evening - but we discussed some options, and it's a toss up between tacos or lasagna.
Photo's of the evening: I meant to get pictures of her serving salads and spaghetti, but I couldn't get it all done and take photos...maybe next time!!
While shopping this past weekend Emily found an adorable apron/hat set that would fit this evening's agenda. I of course, thought it would just top off the evening, and it came home with me. Sophia LOVED the apron, but wasn't too excited about the hat. We all loved the hat. But she only kept it on long enough for everyone to see and for this picture...of which we had to beg her to let us take. She finally gave in to our begging, but wouldn't smile!!Sophia and I had planned to make the cake from 
scratch, but circumstances of the day didn't allow that to happen, so Betty Crocker's Chocolate Fudge cake came to the rescue. I almost always make my baked goods completely from scratch - so using a boxed mix and pre-made frosting isn't something I like to do. However, Sophia wanted chocolate cake and I had to make that happen - even if it meant a boxed mix. However, you can see that end product turned out very pretty - and rather yummy.
scratch, but circumstances of the day didn't allow that to happen, so Betty Crocker's Chocolate Fudge cake came to the rescue. I almost always make my baked goods completely from scratch - so using a boxed mix and pre-made frosting isn't something I like to do. However, Sophia wanted chocolate cake and I had to make that happen - even if it meant a boxed mix. However, you can see that end product turned out very pretty - and rather yummy.
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