Here i sit at my computer, on a semi-cold December day {we've had many of those to date}, with less than 48 hours remaining in 2011. WOW what a year! Where did it go? Have you ever heard the term "bag of mixed emotions"? Well I feel that has been this year. I have experienced many happy moments, many ubberly exciting moments, moments when my heart hurt, moments filled with total agony - sadness - loneliness and defeat, moments of pure bliss and joy, moments of anxiousness, and moments of total peace and calm.
January started with Ayana going forward to accept Jesus Christ as her Savior, and Sophia going forward to be baptized! Talk about starting the year off right!! WOOT WOOT!! January also held the Ohio State Football Buckeyes winning the BCS Sugar Bowl - in the midst of a scandal, NCAA investigations and daily developments to the story that broke right before Christmas.{Little did we know what the rest of 2011 would bring to the beloved Buckeye football team}. I was part of a conspiracy, towards the end of January...on a very cold January Sunday night I drove to CMH to pick-up my friend, Beth. She was coming home, from China, as a surprise to her family during her break at Chinese New Year! What a sweet reunion in the airport, and the Megmobile was full of giggles and excitement as we drove as quickly as legal to her parent's home. The best part was standing outside in the middle of the frozen ice covered street, and hearing her mom scream with excitement and surprise as she ran into their home yelling "HAPPY NEW YEAR"!! It was by far one of the coolest things I've done to date!
February allowed me the opportunity to participate in a breakfast at the kiddos school. It was very cool to be back in the lunchroom that I ate in as an elementary student and to see the kiddos in their element. February was probably the month that held the most life changing events for me, as it started my quest to a healthier lifestyle. Thanks to a program at work that encouraged healthier life decisions - and offered a reward of $200 off your Medical Premium in 2012, if you met their challenge. Since I'm a sucker for ways to save money, I began looking at my life in terms of getting healthy with the reward of saving money as motivation! {Btw - I met the challenge requirements in May...WOOT WOOT!}. The doctor challenged me to loose 60 POUNDS!! He knows I'm a control freak - so he took the opportunity to remind me that there are only a few things in my life that I can control, and one of them is food. He then told me, "and you aren't controlling it." Those words put me right into my place, and changed my way of thinking. I've not had a regular soda since February, {accept the one I accidentally drank on Christmas - because I thought the can was diet...oops}, and regular soda was my "lifeline" or so I thought. My food choices are smarter - I still eat many of the things I want, but I have to account for those in my daily points, so I'm thinking before I'm eating. Everything in moderation. To date I've lost 35 pounds. I wanted to do this slow and steady - I want it to be a lifestyle change...not a flash in the pan kind of thing. Jenni and I began walking on Monday evenings, and I must say I feel much better physically and mentally. Sophia was baptized in mid-February, and her Dad was able to be there to witness it...little did we know that would be one of his last visits to IBC for several years, as a few days later he was arrested for Aggravated Vehicular Assault - relating to the accident he was involved in the Fall of 2010. Bringing many court hearings and legal sessions to both he and Kari - as she filed for full custody of the Kiddos {which was granted in September}.
March allowed me to use my planning skills to assist Jenni as she hosted Lisa's Bridal Shower. It was a beautiful event! I took on the task of making cupcakes - and I found the best buttercream recipe ever....I've used it several times since. The cupcakes and the shower were a hit by all who attended. March again allowed me to volunteer at the Nationwide Children's Hospital Infusion Weekend at Deercreek. I returned to the craft room, and enjoyed seeing old and new faces alike. March also brought a return to Hocking Hills for Ryan, Jenni, Tim, Lisa and I - and Reece too. We once again had a relaxing weekend, filled with beautiful weather, delicious food, hours of March Madness Basketball and plenty of laughter. It was a nice break in the routine of life - especially right before Tim and Lisa's wedding six weeks later. Steve, Wendy, Jenni, Kari and I participated in the Channel 10 Commit to Be Fit Challenge as the Flabbiless 5. We didn't win the contest, but we all lost weight - and that alone was a great reward!
April seems to have flashed right past. I hosted my first non-family overnight guests early in the month - with some of the IBC teen girls. It was nice to have other noise bellowing throughout VdM in the morning. After the girls left VdM - I headed to Mom and Dad's for what was supposed to be a day of shopping - but plans changed. While eating a piece of warmed coffee cake Mom experienced what we thought at the time to be a Stroke. I must say it was the SCARIEST moment of my life - I was there as the entire episode unfolded, and I must be honest that thoughts of loosing my Mom that day filled me with fear. Thankfully after many tests and scans, we found out that what she experienced was a reaction to something that she was eating and the physical temperature of the food - it was a natural reaction the body has to something that is too hot or too cold, and the symptoms are all similar to that of a Stroke. Since I love to cook/bake I decided I would prepare Easter Dinner for the family this year - a task I thoroughly enjoyed! The following weekend I had the honor of assisting two of my best friends on their wedding day. Tim and Lisa's wedding was beautiful, romantic and true reflection of their love for each other!! I also challenged myself with 40 goals to accomplish before May, 2016...this is the gift I gave to myself of birthday in May. I've worked towards many of them and have a accomplished a few, but I need to make greater strides at accomplishing them on a more regular basis.
May {my most favorite month}began with Breaking World News. I'll never forget - it was a Sunday night, and I was in bed early still trying to recover from the events of the weekend {Tim and Lisa's wedding}. I had the TV on for background noise, but was reading through cookbooks {hard to imagine, I know!}, and Brian Williams (NBC News Anchor) broke in and said, "President Obama will be addressing the country within the hour". I found this to be rather importantly odd and very much unsettling - I mean it was 9:00 p.m. on a Sunday evening...not many addresses from a President come on Sunday evenings at almost 10:00 p.m. that probably are of some tragic capacity. My attention was now half on the cookbooks and half on staying "tuned in" awaiting the address. After several delays the President took the podium and addressed the nation and the world, announcing that US Navy Seals had captured and killed Osama Bin Laden earlier that day - peace filled my mind, fear filled my mind. Hayden finished his first year of college at ODU in mid-May, and had his first Spring and Summer without baseball, since he was four. I also co-planned a Mother/Daughter Luncheon at IBC for the Saturday following Mother's Day...it was a nice event, and enjoyed by many. May also held my 35th Birthday - YIKES!! I hosted a birthday party for my family and some friends at my favorite past time location - outside of the kitchen - Outside the Lines Creative Studio. I think everyone enjoyed it...and some have even gone back on their own! Jim Tressel was fired as the Ohio State Football couch on Memorial Day weekend, as part of the continuing scandal that broke loose in December, 2010 - Luke Fickell was announced as Interim Couch for the 2011 Season.
June was a super busy month! The first Tuesday in June brought a dream of mine to reality. I planned, coordinated and hosted a Summer Bible Study at Villa de Megalicious on Tuesday evenings for teen girls going into or already in High School. It was a blessing and challenge - all at once. We studied "Lies Young Women Believe: and The Truth that Sets them Free". I had 4 girls who attended/participated each week. I'm hoping to continue a similar ministry this summer as well. In addition to the Bible Study, I also spent most non-working hours finalizing plans for VBS at IBC! Emily, along with the IBC teens spent a week in Utah doing Backyard Bible Clubs - and I was happy to work with the Bible Teachers to get them ready for their ministry. Their week show an increase in attendance each night and more of a connection to the church with the kids in that neighborhood - but best of all, it held the Spiritual Birthday of one of the kids who attended!. June held a small cut in Kari's apron strings, as Sophia attended her first year of Summer Camp at Scioto Hills - and had great week of growth both developmentally and spiritually.
July means extended amounts of sunshine, lots of time at the pool, yummy food at picnics and fireworks! And this year was no different! Gold Rush 2011, was a great week of ministry at IBC and we saw 90 kids attend VBS. IBC is blessed with many talented people that made my job of VBS Director. We continue to reach out to the VBS attendees through various means in hopes of seeing many attend IBC on a regular basis and begin/restore/continue a relationship with Jesus Christ. Once VBS had come to an end, I had more time to enjoy the extended amounts of sunlight and free time in the evening. Ayana played soccer this summer and loved it, so many Saturday mornings you could find me on the sidelines cheering her on. Elijah began Mai Thai - and I was able to catch a couple of his classes as well. The Kiddos spent a weekend with me, and we had a blast hanging at the pool, watching movies, walking to meet Jenni and Ryan for pizza, and just making memories! The Bible Study continued on Tuesday evenings - and was always a highlight to my week. The US State Department gave me permission to leave the country by granting me a passport - which worked out for plans I had made for August.
August brought a trip of a lifetime! Ryan, Jenni, Tim, Lisa and I (C5) boarded a plane in the wee hours of Saturday, August 13 and headed to CANCUN, MEXICO!!! OH it was wonderful, beautiful, peaceful, restful and every thing I thought it would be. The water was crystal clear, the white sand sparkled like diamonds, the hot sun baked us to golden tans {some more than others}, the food was outrageously delicious, the people were hardworking and hospitable, the experiences of the culture were eye opening and the memories will last a lifetime! August also brought one of the hardest days in the life of our family, as Terry (the kiddos father) was sentenced to four years in prison for his part in the accident from October, 2010. This was and has been the hardest part of our year - helping the kiddos understand and grasp this reality - was not and continues to be something we face on any given day. They are still very happy children, who are active in various activities and doing well in school. But once again their normal changed - and they (we) are still adjusting to this new normal. August brings the end of the Summer - and the start of a new school year. Hayden started his Sophomore at ODU and looking at internships for the Summer of 2012; Emily became a Junior and has begun the college selection process; Sophia entered 3rd grade, she loves arts and crafts, and is looking forward to playing basketball in January 2012; Elijah began 2nd grade and continues to love math and Lego's, and is becoming a Hockey fan; Ayana entered 1st grade and has acquired a love for reading, she wants to be a teacher one day, and she continues to keeps us laughing with her random remarks to life. August ended by celebrating Gabriella's first birthday. She is such a joy to our family and is growing so quickly. Her smile and personality are such a blessing to all of us. She knows how to say "more", "eat" and "thank you" in sign-language...in addition to learning to speak some basic 16 month words.
September began with Kari and the kiddos spending Labor Day Weekend Saturday with me poolside at VdM! We swam and soaked int the sun all day, ending the day with meeting Jenni for dinner that evening - it was a great day! Elijah decided he wanted to (as he says it) "show everyone that I (he) am a child of God's", and went forward for baptism. September also had me on the road again! As if Cancun wasn't enough the C5 filled a mini-van with duffle bags, coolers of cold beverages and containers of snacks - and headed for Nashville! We toured the Opyland Hotel and the Grand Ole Opry - where we sang "You are My Sunshine" on the stage. We walked all over Downtown Nashville and toured the Country Music Hall of Fame. Again, it was a great weekend! The next weekend found me meeting another food challenge - planning, preparing and cooking breakfast for the BFL/MRC Board and volunteers. I had been looking forward to this challenge for a long time! Everyone seemed to enjoy the food and I had several ask for recipes and if I catered or would consider catering other events! OH YIKES - not sure if I'm ready for all of that...I just LOVE to cook/bake for others! The Ohio State football team had a rough start to what was a very rough season. I returned as an IT leader, again this year.
October was a semi low-key month. I enjoyed the slow pace of the month. I took some time off towards the end of the month and enjoyed time of relaxation. I was able to go apple picking with Steve and his family, along with Wendy's Mom, Dad and Step-Mom...one of my favorite Fall Activities! The annual Thornton Family Harvest Party was again a highlight to kicking off the upcoming Thanksgiving/Christmas season. The kiddos allowed me to join them for Trick-Or-Treat again this year, and that was a lot of fun! I enjoyed the Missions Conference at IBC and the IT Missionary Progressive Dinner. The semi low-key schedule also allowed me to "get in" several of Emily's Volleyball games - where is was co-Captain of the Varsity team.
November brought Elijah getting baptised! It is always a highlight and blessing when you see someone in your family following Christ, in this act of obedience. Since there were no movies out that I wanted to see, I enjoyed pizza and movies at VdM on Veteran's Day. Ryan turned 30 this year - but he didn't allow for a big party. Heaven became a sweeter place on November 12, when Joan lost her battle with cancer and entered the joy of her reward. Thanksgiving Day I spent having breakfast with Mom, Dad, Jenni, Kari and the Kiddos - then went to Jenni's for the morning and most of the afternoon to look at ads and make our plan of attack. Jenni, Kari and I went, saw and conquered Toys R Us that evening- and then Jenni and I met up with Ryan (later joined by Tracy, Emily and Katie) at Kohl's. We shopped for about an hour and waited in line for another three...okay we were still able to shop during those three hours, depending on which section of the store we were in. Kohl's was followed by hitting up Steak-n-Shake at 4:00 a.m., then off to Old Navy at 5:00 a.m.. I was in bed by 6:00 a.m., and got up at 11:00 to hit the stores again - Kari joined us again that afternoon! The Thornton Family Thanksgiving was a great time as usual,, with good food and lots of laughter, on the Saturday after Thanksgiving...even though the Buckeyes lost to the team up North for the first time in 10 years. The T.E.A.C.H. team did a wonderful job of using their talents to minister in Jr. Church for the month...it is such a joy to watch the teens willingly use their gifts to honor God and minister to others.
December of course brought everything Christmas! But before that, came the announcement of Urban Meyer as head coach of the Ohio State Football Team....later in the month we learned that Ohio State would be made an example of by the NCAA, and their decision of punishment on the scandal that had broken one year before. The Christmas Concert at IBC was a great way to kick off the Christmas season...we are so blessed by many beautiful musical talents. Many in the family kept the tradition of sorting cards at IBC alive for the 24th year - we sorted over 1,700 cards this year. Christmas Eve at Jenni's included the addition of Ryan, his parents, brothers and Grandma Betty - we had a great time of food, games and lots of laughter. Christmas Eve also took Steve's family back at Wendy's dad's - which was a blessing for them! Christmas Day was filled with our traditions at Kari's, Church and then to Mom and Dad's for the family gift exchange. Later that evening some of us headed downtown for our annual visit to the State Auto Nativity and ended the night playing The LOGO Board Game. I've taken my traditional week-off from work, and I'm enjoying lots of time with family and relaxation.
2011 was the year of mixed emotions and new challenges - some self-imposed and others not so much, but I must admit, it was all in all a great year! 2012 is going to be a year of BIG changes for me, HARD changes - but changes that need to be made. However, I know that I will not walk this road alone - God will lead me and is leading me in these changes, and I'll have my family and friends to hold me up physically and emotionally when the road gets too steep.
Good-bye 2011 and Hello 2012!
